If someone sins against you go to them and them alone in a humble attitude. I can’t go in an attitude of a, “Hey what’s wrong with you?” type of attitude. I have to go in an attitude of restoring the relationship. I have to put my self under the other too. I as a human have this thing called pride. Pride sucks and makes me want to be better than everyone else. I have to go with an attitude of me being worse. We all have sin so I have to expect others to sin too. My life is no greater than everyone else’s so people are gonna be like me and mess up. I can’t imagine how often I irritate others. Christian came up to me in Xelah probably like 100 times and it was all one on one and just him telling me when I screwed up. Which was quite often. I am glad he came in an attitude of restoration too. Now we are boys again, and in the midst of sin we can’t be as tight, but in the biblical attitude he came in we can be tight again. Xelah wrecked me, Xelah showed me how much of a mess up I am, but then it also showed me how to be a biblical friend. Now we are united once more and we are buddies again. So today if someone irritates me I will go Ain an attitude of restoration, I will go in with an attitude of love and trying to be reunited with someone.